Saturday, October 18, 2008

Daily report 24

This will be my last blog at Melaka. I won't be able to update my blog for some time. Today, was my last final exam paper and luckily I managed(I think) to answer it. Time starts ticking and there was a feeling of emptyness in my heart( I just woke up from my noon nap,haha). I can't deny that I begin to miss Melaka and my friends that I've met here. 3 years is neither a short or long period to get to know someone. So, if you my friends are reading this I would like to apologize if I've ever done anything wrong or hurt you in a way that I(idiot) don't know. I'm not perfect and sometimes I expressed myself in a wrong way.

Maybe, before I leave Melaka in the next morning I'll visit MMU for the last time. I've good and bad memories there(who doesn't?). Take a brisk walk around MMU. Haha, I still remember the first day I was at the orientation for freshies. Now, here I am packing to leave Melaka.

OK, I have to speed up my packing. I still need to wash my car in the next morning! Busy, busy, busy. I hereby wish all my friends all the best in their life. Goodbye, Melaka.

Mood: The feeling of missing someone or something and faces flashing in my mind, that's how I feel now.

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Friday, October 17, 2008

Daily report 23

My last exam paper,
Offshore Banking & Finance
9am 18/10/08 Saturday
This may be just my toughest final exam paper this semester.

I'm still planning whether to stay awake or take a short sleep tonight. Well, it depends on my progress of study.

My days at Melaka is coming to an end soon enough. I need to pack my stuff and be prepared(mentally & physically) for my internship as well. If, my superior ask me what I've learned at university, frankly I'll be taking my time to answer that question. I have to be healthy during my internship as well because no employers will like his/her employees in poor health conditions and keep taking medical leaves. After all, all of these might affect my marks/grade for my internship. NO KIDDING. A new world is waiting for me, and I fear the worst might come to me. I'm anticipating it, I just have that feeling.

Mood: I still need to study! ><

P/S: To my other friends that have the last paper on Saturday, hang on and all the best. Let's do our best, ok? Go! Go! Go!

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Daily report 22

Shop for my formal clothes and other stuffs today. I spent around Rm400 today. @@
Before that, I watched Max Payne the movie. Well, it was ok and I was expecting more action from the movie.

Time flies and I haven't start my revision on my next paper offshore. Gotta start working tonight. Oh ya, looking back at my room I found out that I still haven't start packing! Well, I'll start off little by little tomorrow.

~The End~

Mood: I want a more challenging life, so I don't have so much time to think of unnecessary and unproductive things in my head. Argh.....

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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Daily report 21

Nothing much to say, nothing much to write. Haiz....

Ok la, entertainment news,
Madonna and her husband Guy Ritchie planned to divorce. More news from here

Nation news,
Government has cut down the petrol price to Rm2.30 per litre

Football news,
Manchester City is going to bid for David Villa for 100 million euros

How to seal a bag of chips


Chick of the day: Jessica Biel

“There’s no pill, there’s no diet, there’s no magic drink.” Jessica Biel
Jessica Biel's workout

OMG, she's hot.

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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Daily report 20

Ok, today seems like the last day of exam paper for most of my friends. So, sayonara Melaka everyone? Each of us is going our own path be it looking for a job or internship. I've been thinking, what we all will become in the next 5 years. Rich? In debt? Married?(haha) Fulfilled your dreams? I, too have to start planning already. I don't have a particular objective now, maybe I'll think of one when the time comes.

So, why not we share our experience in MMU Melaka? Tag your blogger friends too :)
You don't have to follow exactly as mine, use your own style, creativity and run wild with your imagination! :D

University: Multimedia University Melaka

Degree: Bachelor of Business Administration Banking & Finance

Years spent: 3 years

Age when graduated: 24

The best moment: Meeting you my friends :) , 8tv summer live concert!

The sh*ttest moment: Heartbroken(laugh all you want), when you don't have a pc(you know how I feel right?)

Expectation when entered uni: get a degree, get to know chicks, duno how to spend my time

After grad, I've learned: how to get a degree, how to spend your dad's hard earn $ without any guilt, how to be the most wanted man by ladies in Bukit Beruang(this is a joke,ok?), MMU is a money making university(it's worth it la), how to take it like a man and act like a man

Status before uni: single

Status after uni: hot, bachelor, available, someone-you-dying-for

5 years later: 5C - Cash, Credit card, car, Condominium, Country club membership

10 years later: 5B - Body, Bungalow, Boat, Billionaire, BMW

Conclusion: I miss MMU ladies but I think they won't miss me :(

Ni.., Mi.., An.., Ch.., Sa.., Ta.. ,Eu.. - farewell and goodbye girls

Mood: Still bloated after Sibaraku buffet, burp... excuse me

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Daily report 19

Woke up at 11am
Lunch at "ocean"
Take a nap
Dinner
Supper
Good night

Conclusion, eat and sleep today.
So, in the coming days I have to pack up my things for KL. I need to get new formal clothes which is a priority to me. Wash and check my car which is a must as well for the KL trip. Say goodbye to my friends in Malacca and not forgetting the lecturers too. After almost 3 years at Malacca, it seems time pass on quickly. It's like a dream to me. Working days are coming soon and it's a whole new level for me. Wherever I go there will always be politics be it in schools, university, society and now the working place. I've to learn to handle all this because this is part of life as well.

Oh ya, I'm really mad of idiots who don't even know manners. I was queuing up to order my food and these people out of nowhere just came in front of me and make an order. I was pissed off. What about my feelings? They think I like to wait longer is it? Do I look like I was born to be bullied or my status is not on par with these people? Man and woman are all the same. You know what? This is the Chinese people that we(Chinese) are so proud of!(actually every races are the same) F*ck you! They don't have mothers to teach them manners, the schools and teachers of Malaysia must be useless because they are unable to educate these idiots. So, how do I look now? A nice guy? Ya, I'm a nice guy who's being treated like an invisible man(or worse, they don't give a sh*t abt me) by these brainless people. Next time if you hear me screaming at these idiots, don't be surprised. If no one educate them, than I shall do that. Maybe I'm a gentleman, maybe I'm a nice guy but I don't tolerate this kind of bullsh*t(not anymore).

14/10/08
Paper: Malaysian Economy
Average score: 11.42/20
Highest score: 15.75/20
My score: 12.38/20 (so so only, too bad)

I watched a preview of the next TVB coming series, The Gem Of Life. This series will show a selfish, materialistic and cheater in the character that Ada Choi plays. Does such a person really exist?(I believe). I watched for a few minutes and I already think her is a b*tch, lol. Talk about talent in acting, every actors n actresses in these series are going to blow my mind again. Money, power, fame and woman... how does a man handle all of these in the current society nowadays.

Mood: Kinda sleepy, a bit pissed off but better forget abt these idiots coz they don't worth my time. Adios

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Sunday, October 12, 2008

Daily report 18

Counting days... the days left that I'm going to be in Malacca. I'm not sure when I'll be coming back to this city again. I have sweet and sour moments here. I've met good friends, whacky friends, idiots, and heart breakers, LOL. I'm going to miss this place since I've been here for almost 3 years and it's like my second hometown(although I doubt that this feeling will last coz I'll be in KL soon, hehe).

OK, now let me introduce the next promising female action superstar of Asia, Miss Yanin "Jeeja" Vismistananda. She's born in Bangkok, Thailand on 31st of March 1984. She's 162cm tall and weighs 43kg. Her debut album is "Chocolate" or known as "Fury" in Malaysia.


Pics from this link
Q&A session with BK magazine
More about the film!
Wikipedia

Yes, I've fallen for her after I watched her movie. Unfortunately the biggest obstacle between us is language and not to mention she's a superstar now :( Although this was her first movie but her acting is really good(2 months of acting classes). It's not easy to act as an autistic person. I wish her all the best and I'm really looking forward her future movies! Chan rak khoon Jeeja! (I love you in Thai)

Marks: Slept like a log/100

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Saturday, October 11, 2008

Daily report 17

Ok, I'm going to stay awake the whole night again to study. Yes, super last minute study for Business Ethics.

Paper: Business Ethics
Section BM 251 only
Average score: 10.64/20
Highest score: 16.67/20
My score: 11.67/20 :(

Man, the past year papers MCQ's are really hard and you need to look at the text book for answers. It's not easy I tell you. *sigh*
Coffee can do wonders for you to stay up all night. I heard coffee can also make our memory weak. I'm not sure of it though but nevertheless I still need the caffeine to stay up tonight. Everyone good luck and all the best!

Marks: @_@ panda eyes tonight/100

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Friday, October 10, 2008

Daily report 16

"Can the soul of the man play the right kind of blues?"
-Blues by Jam Hsiao, 萧敬腾

I lie awake
I drive myself crazy
Drive myself crazy
Thinking of you
Made a mistake
When I let you go, baby
I drive myself crazy
Wanting you the way I do
Wanting you the way I do
-Thinking of you(I drive myself crazy) by N'sync

忘了是怎麼開始
也許就是對你有一種感覺
忽然間發現自己
以深深愛上你 真的很簡單"
I've forgotten how it started
Maybe it was because I had some sort of feeling for you
And suddenly, I realized that I
Already love you deeply, really quite easily (translated)
-爱很简单, Love so simple by David Tao,陶喆

Beauty queen of only eighteen
She had some trouble with herself
He was always there to help her
She always belonged to someone else
I drove for miles and miles
And wound up at your door
I've had you so many times but somehow
I want more

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I don't mind spending everyday
Out on your corner in the pouring rain
Look for the girl with the broken smile
Ask her if she wants to stay awhile
And she will be loved
She will be loved

- She will be loved by Maroon 5


But if I let you go I will never know

What my life would be holding you close to me

Will I ever see you smiling back at me?

How will I know if I let you go?

-If I let you go by Westlife


每一次和妳分開 深深地被妳打敗
每一次放棄妳的溫柔 痛苦難以釋懷
每一次和妳分開 每一次Kiss You Goodbye
愛情的滋味此刻我終於最明白

Every time we part ways, I am deeply defeated by you
Every time I give up your tenderness, it is hard to release my pain
Every time we part ways, Every time I kiss you goodbye
at that moment I finally fully understand the taste of love (translation)

-Kiss goodbye by Lee Hom, Wang(王力宏)


就是開不了口讓她知道
jiu shi kai bu liao kou rang ta zhi dao
I just can’t open my mouth to let her know

我一定會呵護著妳也逗妳笑
wo yi ding hui he hu zhe ni ye dou ni xiao
I will surely protect you and make you laugh

妳對我有多重要 我後悔沒讓妳知道
ni dui wo you duo zhong yao wo hou hui mei rang ni zhi dao
You are so important to me, I regret not letting you know

安靜的聽妳撒嬌 看妳睡著一直到老
an jing de ting ni sa jiao kan ni shui zhao yi zhi dao lao
Quietly listening to you whine, watching you sleep till we grow old

就是開不了口讓她知道
jiu shi kai bu liao kou rang ta zhi dao
I just can’t open my mouth to let her know

就是那麼簡單幾句我辦不到
jiu shi na me jian dan ji ju wo ban bu dao
Those mere simple sentences, I can’t say them

整顆心懸在半空我只能夠遠遠看著
zheng ke xin xuan zai ban kong wo zhi neng gou yuan yuan kan zhao
My whole heart hangs in the air, I can only watch from afar

這些我都做得到但那個人已經不是我
zhe xie wo dou zuo de dao dan na ge ren yi jing bu shi wo
I can do all these things but that person is already not me


-开不了口, I cant open my mouth? by Jay Chou, 周杰倫

lyrics by Vivian Hsu, 徐若瑄!

Translation: wackycashew - www.jay-chou.net


两只恋人
Liang zhi lian ren

2 little silly people / make a little wish
傻 傻 两 个 人 / 许 过 一 个 愿
sha sha liang ge ren / xu guo yi ge yuan


at the time when stars are blinking & not to far away
当 时 星 星 眨 着 眼 / 看 起 来 并 不 远
dang shi xing xing zha zhe yan / kan qi lai bing bu yuan


I open my wings for you / as well as get blown by the wind
为 你 长 翅 飞 / 为 你 被 风 吹
wei ni zhang chi fei / wei ni bei feng chui


Please wait for me
请 你 千 万 要 等 我
qing ni qian wan yao deng wo


to bring you happiness on that very day
带 幸 福 来 给 你 的 那 一 天
dai xing fu lai gei ni de na yi tian


Spring walking, Summer sea-sighting & Autumn leaves counting
春 天 散 步 , 夏 天 看 海 , 秋 天 数 落 叶
chun tian san bu, xia tian kan hai, qiu tian su luo ye


Always no worries
一 直 没 有 烦 恼
yi zhi mei you fan nao


Always no quarels
一 直 没 有 争 吵
yi zhi mei you zheng chao


Let everyday always be as sweet as candies
让 每 天 像 糖 一 样 甜
rang mei tian xiang tang yi yang tian


Winter's snowing, I am your blanket keeping you warm
冬 天 飘 雪, 我 是 棉 被 温 暖 你 的 夜
dong tian piao xue, wo shi mian bei wen nuan ni de ye


Always by your side
一 直 在 你 身 边
yi zhi zai ni shen bian


Always loving till the end
一 直 爱 到 永 远
yi zhi ai dao yong yuan


You're in charge of lying on my shoulder
你 就 负 责 靠 著 我 的 肩
ni jiu fu zhe kao zai wo de jian


Keeping close to your face, snap a picture
贴 著 你 的 脸 / 拍 一 张 照 片
tie zhe ni de lian / pa yi zhang zhao pian


World's very confusing, so just keep close to me
世 界 是 很 复 杂 的 / 要 靠 我 近 一 点
shi jie shi hen fu zha de / yao kao wo jing yi dian


I hope your everyday's happy & safe
但 愿 你 每 天 / 幸 福 又 安 全
dan yuan ni mei tian / xing fu you an quan


2 little lovers hand in hand
两 只 恋 人 手 牵 手
lian zhi lian ren shou qian shou


None of us need to run to chase after the other
谁 也 不 用 再 跑 给 谁 去 追
shui ye bu yong zai pao gei shui qu zui

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Gary Cao (曹格)
Translated by: Corrie


曹格&卓文宣 - 梁山伯与茱丽叶
Cao Ge & Zhuo Wen Xuan- Liang Shan Bo Yu Zhu Li Ye
‘Gary’ Cao ge & zhuo wen xuan- romeo and Juliet

我的心唱首歌给你听
Wo de xin chang shou ge gei ni ting
Let my heart sing a song just for you

歌词是如此的甜蜜
Ge ci shi ru ci de tian mi
The lyrics are blissful

可是我害羞我没有勇气对你说一句我爱你
Ke shi wo hai xiu wo mei you yong qi dui ni shuo yi ju wo ai ni
But I am too shy to say the words ‘I love you’

为什么你还是不言不语
Wei shen me ni hai shi bu yan bu yu
Why have you still not spoken

难道(是)你不懂我的心
Nan dao (shi) ni bu dong wo de xin
No wonder you don’t understand my heart

不管你用什么方式表明
Bu guan ni yong shen me fang shi biao ming
No matter what method you use to make it clear

我会对你说我愿意
Wo hui dui ni shuo wo yuan yi
I will say to you that I am willing

千言万语里
qian yan wan yu li
all the words that can be said

只有一句话能 表白我的心
Zhi you yi ju hua neng biao bai wo de xin
Only one phrase can really represent what my heart wants to say

千言万语里
qian yan wan yu li
all the words that can be said

只有一句话就 能够让我们相偎相依
Zhi you yi ju hua jiu neng gou rang wo men xiang wei xiang yi
only this phrase is capable of letting us be together

我爱你 你是我的茱丽叶
wo ai ni ni shi wo de zhu li ye
I love you for you are my juliet

我愿意变成你的粱山伯
Wo yuan yi bian cheng ni de liang shan bo
I am willing to change into your ‘liang shan bo’ (‘Chinese’ Romeo)

幸福的每一天浪漫的每一夜
Xing fu de mei yi tian, lang man de mei yi ye
happiness each and every day, romantic each & every night

把爱 永远 不放开 I Love You
Ba ai yong yuan bu fang kai I love you
Never let love go for I love you

我爱你 你是我的罗密欧
Wo ai ni ni shi wo de luo mi ou
I love you for you are my romeo

我愿意变成你的祝英台
Wo yuan yi bian cheng ni de zhu ying tai
I am willing to change into your ‘zhu ying tai’ (‘Chinese’ Juliet)

幸福的每一天浪漫的每一夜
Xing fu de mei yi tian, lang man de mei yi ye
happiness each and every day, romantic each & every night

美丽的爱情祝福着 未来
Mei li de ai qing zhu fu zhe wei lai
the beautiful love that we share will bless our future
In case you were wondering, here is the Chinese Romeo & Juliet love story

translated by

ghettosushi713


The story is set in the Eastern Jin Dynasty.
A young woman named Zhu Yingtai from Shangyu, Zhejiang, disguised herself as a man travelling to Hangzhou to study. During her journey, she met and joined Liang Shanbo, a companion schoolmate from Kuaiji (會稽, Kuàijī, now known as Shaoxing) in the same province. They studied together for three years, during which their relationship strengthened. When the two parted, Zhu offered to arrange for Liang to marry her 16 years old fictitious sister. When Liang travelled to Zhu's home, he discovered her true gender. Although they were devoted and passionate about each other at that point, Zhu was already engaged with Ma Wencai (馬文才, Mǎ Wéncái), a man her parents had arranged for her to be married to. Depressed, Liang died in office as a county magistrate. On the day Zhu was to be married to Ma, whirlwinds prevented the wedding procession from escorting Zhu beyond Liang's tomb. Zhu left the procession to pay her respects for Liang. Liang's tomb split apart, and Zhu dived into it to join him. A pair of butterflies emerged from the tomb and flew away.
Credit: Wikipedia


天天都需要你爱
我的心思由你猜
i love you
我就是要你让我每天都精彩

天天把它挂嘴边
到底什么是真爱
i love you
到底有几分说得比想像更快

是我们感情丰富太慷慨
还是要上天安排
是我们本来就是那一半
还是舍不得太乖
是那一次约定了没有来
让我哭得像小孩
是我们急着证明我存在
还是不爱会发呆

baby
不得不爱,不知快乐从何而来
不得不爱,放下悲伤从何而来
不得不爱,否则我就失去未来
好象什么尤其不能自己很失败
可是每天都过的精彩

*天天都需要你爱
我的心只有你在
i love you
我就是要你让我每天都精彩

天天把他挂嘴边
到底什么是真爱
i love you
到底有几分说得比想像更快*

RAP
I ask girlfriend how you been
来去了几回 我从来没有想过爱情会变得如此无奈
是命运吗 难道难过是上天的安排 没办法
天天的每天的心思到底由谁来陪 我诚心 你诚意
但周围扰人的环境始终让我们无法在这里自由相恋
我精彩 你发呆 两颗心不安的摇摆 应该有的未来是否真那么的无法期待
舍不得再伤害 You're my girl my girl my friend
How much I love you so so much baby
看着你的哀愁 要我如何怎么承受面对
I'm sorry you're my sweetheart My love My one&only

baby
不得不爱,不知快乐从何而来
不得不爱,放下悲伤从何而来
不得不爱,否则我就失去未来
好象什么尤其不能自己很失败
可是每天都过的精彩

Repeat *

会不会有一点无奈
会不会有一点太快
可是你给我的爱
让我养成了依赖
心中充满爱的节拍

天天都需要你爱
我的心随有你在
i love you
我就是要你让我每天都精彩.
PinYin translation
Will Pan - 不得不爱 Bu De Bu Ai


Pop princess hold my hand
Pop princess I'm a fan
Pop princess I need you now
Freak me out turn me inside out
Pop princess make me smile
Pop princess drive me wild
Pop princess I need you now
So baby turn your love up loud

- Pop princess by The Click Five


Oh girl!
I don't want nobody else,
Without you, there's no one left then,
You're like Jordans on Saturday,
I gotta have you and I cannot wait now,
Hey! Little shawty,
Say you care for me,
You know I care for you,
You know...that I'll be true,
You know that I won't lie,
You know that I would try,
To be your everything..yeah..

-With You by Chris Brown


Argh.... I duno wat else to put. Unfortunately this is not complete. Some of this songs are how I felt towards girls that I like, the past and now. My friends said that I'm desperate. Well, I won't deny it completely but I still want to say this, if I'm that DESPERATE, why the hell I still don't have a girlfriend? The problem that I'm facing is not that I don't have a gf but rather who to choose as my gf! *LOL* Sometimes I want to whack the guys around their(the girls) life. They don't realize what they missed *Idiots*. Well, actually that's a good news for single man like me, haha. Be it being single or in a relationship doesn't matter as long as you're happy, right? :)

To my friends who are in a relationship or wants to be in a relationship. Please appreciate what you have now. Do not neglect what's in front of your eyes. If not you'll regret it, I know I do and that kind of feeling feels like your heart was broken into pieces especially when you see the person you like holding hands with another guy/girl. :(

Yes, I'm in a dilemma. Frankly speaking, I have this dilemma since Standard Two that is the first day I stepped into Bentong primary school, SMS. When you like that person, it doesn't matter whether she's/he's a Malay, Chinese, Sikh or even eurasian. But damn, girls can really change and when they grow up they turn into a beautiful, fine, pretty, cute, sexy, seducing, charming, elegant, unique, lovely, hot, sparkling and attractive ladies! *Thank god for creating girls* If you guys said you have never met ladies like that I'm really gonna smack you. Please OPEN you eyes because you don't know what you've missed. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH....

Why I dreamt of Miss N during noon? I have no idea as well. She's so cool/cold in my dreams! ><''



If you have any great songs recommendation, please post in my comment. Thanks. Music is life, baby! :)

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Thursday, October 9, 2008

Why do men take second wives

I personally think this is a good article and I want to share it. I took it from thestar online.

A WRITER'S LIFE
By DINA ZAMAN

Polygamy has nothing to do with culture or religion. Men, and women too, cheat because they can.

WHEN a male friend told me he planned on taking a second wife, all I could do was try not to choke on dinner. Are you serious, I asked. He said yes, he had fallen in love with a single mother, but it was not his fate to marry her.

Thinking it was perhaps due her compassion, her earnest desire to bring up her sprogs in a Godly way and that life was indeed a struggle, I choked on my dessert when my friend told me the first thing he noticed about her was that she owned a great set of jugs.

Now, my friend takes his religious obligations very seriously. His first wife wears the hijab. So to hear him admit that it was his paramour’s cleavage that caught his heart was quite shocking.

It was due to women like me, whose so-called Western, secular and feminist ideas of polygamy that pushed it underground. I then asked him, whether his equally-pious wife agreed to him taking on another wife, and he said no. She gave him an earful.

But our friend was on a roll. Now that his journey into polygamy was thwarted, it was all our fault. We modern Malay women, be they religious or not, were forcing men like him to marry in Thailand or Iran, where they practised nikah Muta’ah.

He was emulating the steps of our good Prophet Mohamed, he argued.

“You have got your Islamic history upside down! Nabi married war widows, and his first wife was older than he. Aishah was the youngest. And I don’t think our Prophet married any woman because she had great breasts!”

“You don’t understand.”

“Okay then. Why don’t you sell your car and take a camel to work then?”

I’m realistic. I know men who adore their wives and love them to bits, but they can still love their mistresses and other wives. Am I condoning affairs and polygamy? No. But this happens. It has nothing to do with Islam or being Malay, though polygamy is part of the culture.

We’re Asians. We have a long history of concubinage. There are good men who are faithful, and there are good men who have other wives. There are also bad men who are faithful and also bad men who are unfaithful.

Just like our politics, love in Malaysia is a circus. Weeee!

I’m not going to bore you with what polygamy in Islam is about, as it has been written before and talked about to death. Women’s rights activists have long fought for this “crime” to be illegal, but we face a tough fight. Sometimes it’s not the men who are itching for it, but yes, our gender, too.

In the 80s, when I was young and clueless, meeting mistresses and second or third wives would be sinful and against my principles.

These days? “Oh, you’re a mistress?” “Oh, you’re a hidden wife?” Yawn. Wear tudung or mini skirt, got. Educated or stupid, got. Some of our mothers are The Other Women, and are good mothers. So how?

Is this phenomenon particular to our culture? Oh no. Read the British newspapers. Mistressing is talked about to death in feminist columns.

But I thought after that dinner with my friend, I’d revisit the issue again. Some of the findings from my five-sen survey:

> Theoretically ... polygamy is OK. But must ikut hukum Allah lah. There are conditions.

> Ya, but… actually, kan, for career women like us, it does work. Nak jaga laki 24 jam … gue tak larat la. Biar bini nombor satu jaga. After all, in Islam, polygamous wives are taken care of legally. Better a Muslim second wife than a common law wife.

> But really. Think about it. Convenient, what. You see him once a week, makan once a week, have sex once a week...

> Sex once a week?! Baik tak yah jadi bini nombor dua macam tu! Chit. Once a week mana cukup?!

Why do men cheat? Again, just an observation dwelled upon by friends and myself. For a lot of polygamous men, they marry good women who fit their criteria of holiness, wifeliness and motherhood.

Intimacy between the men and their wives are perfunctory. It’s make-the-baby-cover-the-face sex. With their girlfriends and second wives, it’s Penthouse all the way, baby. It’s the soul thing.

At least this is what I got from talking to quite a number of married men. It’s not because of the first wives’ lack of trying; they want to have healthy intimate lives, but the bees in their husbands’s bonnets keep reminding the men of the Madonna-Whore syndrome.

Malaysia is not a place for single women desiring Hollywood-movie type of marriages and love. KL especially is a city for marriages and affairs. And it has nothing to do with money. There are rich men who cheat, and I know of a despatch boy who has two wives!

There are many single-again women like my friends and I, who still believe in marriage and love. But I can tell you, should we walk down that path again one day, we’re going down it with our eyes open and keep a part of our hearts to ourselves. Because you never know.

Perhaps my friend, an activist who makes a living entering and staying in war zones, is right.

“We have women like you, me, your mother, your aunt and friend who fight so hard for women and children and yet face a brick wall, simply because we ‘understand’ so much, and forgive all the time, which is why cheating, affairs and polygamy are rampant, to the detriment or contribution (depends how you look at it) of our well-being,” says my friend.

Another friend, Sharizal Sharaani, put it succinctly: “Men (and, yes, women too) cheat because they can. Full stop.”

The writer still believes in love and marriage and wants to move to Corfu.

here's the link to the whole article

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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Daily report 15


Movie alert:
Fury (18SG)

Synopsis:
Yakuza Masashi and his Thai lover Zin are forced to part when Masashi is sent back to Japan, leaving Zin in Bangkok as a single mother to their autistic daughter, Zen. Despite her condition, she is blessed with extreme agility and picks up Muay Thai by watching television programs and from observing the training sessions at the Muay Thai academy next door. Zen becomes an obsessive fighter who excels at catching fast-flying objects. When Zin is diagnosed with cancer, Zen has to fight her way to raise funds for her mother's treatments.
Check out the review - Fury 2008

Max Payne

Screening on 16th Oct 2008

Synopsis:
Adapted from the Max Payne video game, it follows a New York cop whose wife and baby are killed by thugs high on a designer drug called Valkyr. Devastated, Max Payne joins the Drug Enforcement Agency and goes undercover with the mob to find the source of the drug. Framed for the murder of his partner and hunted down by both the mob and the police, he is forced to wage a one-man war against crime.

I have kinda high anticipation for this 2 movies. Remember "Ong Bak"? The same director will be directing Fury. This lead actress really knows Muay Thai and not just acting! Max Payne is a game I played before. Not a bad game but surely involve violence. I still remember the molotov cocktails I tossed to the bad guys(coz I'm Max Payne). They sure being cooked well. The game is fun to play with a special mode that can allows you in a "Matrix like" mode with slow-mo for you to shoot down your enemies. Maybe, the director will implement this in the movie as well?

Marks: sleepy/100

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Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Daily report 14

Wednesday paper, Financial Derivatives 9am

Average marks 33.30
Highest mark 44.8
My marks 36.70
*out of 50 marks

OK, now a special moment about Fernando Torres. I dedicate this post to KJ(my blog fan lol) and my friends who are Liverpool Fans( you know who you are).


Euro 2008 Champion

Full Name: Fernando José Torres Sanz
Nickname: El Niño (The Kid) >>>> Now, I know why Fran put this nick, haha
Date & place of birth: 20-03-1984, Madrid
Height: 1.86m
Weight: 78kg
Current club: Liverpool FC
Position: Forward


Fernando has tattoos on of both of his inner arms. On his right arm he has the number 9 tattooed, which obviously means his shirt number in the Spanish national team, formerly in Atlético Madrid and currently in Liverpool. On his left arm he has "Fernando" tattooed in tengwar, which is a constructed script invented by J.R.R. Tolkien, the author of the Lord of the Rings series. (source from Fernando Torres Fan Club) *looks cool hor, where r ur tattoos eujin? :P


Fernando Torres and his fiance, Olalla (this is her name serious! Not lala ><)
Fernando Torres Nike Ad - Listen to the song!

Links about Torres:
Wikipedia
Official Fernando Torres site

True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice.
Samuel Johnston

I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a friend's interest and inclination.
George Washington

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Sunday, October 5, 2008

Daily report 13

The first paper of my exam is coming soon in another 12 hours. I still have work(memorizing) to do for the few chapters. I think I can finish them tonight. If I can't then maybe I have to wake up early before exam to memorize them again. Yes, last min work again. I hope I can answer all the questions, haha. *pray pray pray*

1st paper: Credit Management
Avg score: 34.62/50
Highest score: 43.13 /50 (me)

I have a good chance for getting an 'A' for this subject. I hope I don't spoil this chance. Everyone good luck and all the best in your coming papers!

Think where man's glory most begins and ends, And say my glory was I had such friends.
William Butler Yeats

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Daily report 12


Rooney smiling after scoring the goal

Man Utd Vs Blackburn
The results are obvious, a 2-0 win for MU. Blackburn had a few chances but they couldn't converted them. The first goal scored by Brown and Rooney added his tally to 3 goals in 3 games after that. Ronaldo wasted a lot of chances, I hope he can realize what he's lacking and help the team to win in their future games. Berbatov is still looking to adapt to MU's play.

I hereby wish all the best to my friends for the coming final exams. Take care of your health :)

May God defend me from my friends; I can defend myself from my enemies.
Voltaire

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Saturday, October 4, 2008

Daily report 11

I'm not happy after my friend's blog translated to me. I was like being insulted but everyone has their own opinion. Even though, the words are not nice to my ears I still have to learn to respect and think of what others say. It's hard but I have to think rationally and calm myself down. If such a small criticism I'm unable to accept then I know for sure I can't handle the big waves of pressure that will heap on me in the future.

Maybe, it's not a bad news after all. Now, I recalled back all the criticism I had in MMU days. From the lecturers and friends words, they ignited the flame inside my heart. NOT ANGER, NOT REVENGE but the flame of determination to do my best. I told myself enough with the empty promises I made and I should stop being just a 'big talk person' but instead to show positive actions and results. I've lost the flame and I'm like a dead fish now, a soulless man with a body only. I don't have a sense of direction in my life. For that, I'm an immature boy and the black sheep of my family. My mom and dad called me earlier today to ask about me(condition). I answered with short answers like "Hmm", "ya", "I know" and other craps. I was playing games that time and I dun care what they were telling me. Then, my mom said that she always tell
濟公(a Chinese god) that I'm going to have exams soon and wish that I do well. I'm such an a**hole. *Sigh*

P/S: Do you have anything to say to an @s*hole like me? Please leave your comment then, ty.

It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business
.
Mahatma Gandhi

Evaluation: 10/100 (for being an idiot)

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Friday, October 3, 2008

Daily report 10


YUMMY....??


Vote or no vote? I hope Malaysians(that's me!) can learn from this

Nothing much to talk abt today. Eat, sleep, play games and some light reading. I already lost my 'motivation soul'. ><"
Maybe I need a 管家婆(housekeeper)? XD

P/S: WHY NOBODY VOTE MY POLL? NO MATTER U ARE A BLOGGER OR NOT U CAN VOTE! :)

I decided to put in a friendship quote in my blog everyday, here's the 1st: If two friends ask you to judge a dispute, don't accept, because you will lose one friend; on the other hand, if two strangers come with the same request, accept because you will gain one friend.
St. Augustine

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Thursday, October 2, 2008

Daily report 9


Eagle Eye the movie
I found this movie not bad but the critics said otherwise. Here's wikipedia source. I found this movie is full of action although the car chasing and some scenes seem far too fast for my eyes. I found this movie far better than Babylon A.D. (sorry, Dato' Michelle Yeoh but ur movie really ....)
Oh ya, for Transformers fans next summer there will be a sequel. The title is The Revenge Of The Fallen. I'm not going to miss it! Please check out my poll as well. Let me and other bloggers know what u think, ok?

Today, I give 60 marks. (thanks Shia LaBeouf)

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Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Daily report 8

Today I watched The Four from episode 4 to 6. Before that, I watched Supernatural episode 2. Then I played GGarena. Walau, so many ppl played cheat in FOC, really boring.

90 marks today
P/S: Only that person knows why :)
Sorry to bother you whole night but I'm happy for your company. Have a good rest. :D

Wednesday, I'll start to study and I'm not kidding.

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